Everyone Is Mad at Me! Did I Make the Right Decision?

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Have you ever made a right decision from a completely powerful place? You knew it was the right decision to make, only to later find people are completely irate?

They take your actions personally and resent the change that occurred. It can be hard to understand because you were so sure you did the right thing!

Caught completely off guard watching these reactions, it’s easy to doubt yourself.

How do you respond? Start by doing this simple check-in on your motives, to ensure you made the right decision. These tips are from success coach David Neagle:

4 Questions to Ensure You Make the Right Decision

Is this something you want to be, do or have?
Is being, doing or having this taking you closer to your goal?
Is being, doing or having this in alignment with Universal Law (more life to all)?
Does being, doing or having this violate the rights of others (Does it take away someone’s right to choose)?

If you answered yes to first three questions and the last a no, you are aligned with your own growth and expansion.

Ideally, we ask ourselves these questions before we make a decision. However, this is a marvelous tool for doing a personal check-in when unsure if you made the right choice too.

Sometimes what is right for us can be upsetting to those around us, however, that doesn’t mean it’s not the right step to take.

When opportunities for you to grow and expand present themselves fear can come up. Contracting is a normal response when afraid. We often must focus and consciously step into the expansion. When we expand it effects those around us and they rebel against the change. This leads to people upset with us and telling us we are doing something wrong.

Use this tool before making a decision whenever you are unsure of yourself. AND, if you’ve ruffled some feathers along the way and doubting yourself, use the process to ensure you are in alignment with truth.

Having a difficult time seeing the truth for yourself? A Spiritual Coaching Session with Kelly will do just that for you. Schedule one here now.

What Are You Really Doing When You Raise Your Vibe?

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Most of us would agree that when we are in a good place more gets done. When we are feeling energetic, focused, like what we do matters, and we have an important place in this world, we not only enjoy our life more, but we get better results in what we do.

We know it when we are there and “feeling it”, yet it’s a difficult place to describe. When we aren’t there, we also recognize it and may say things like I need to “get in a better space”, “raise my vibration” or “put my head on straight”.

Have you ever thought about what these statements actually mean and how we do it? This was first described to me clearly by Jerry and Ester Hicks, who channel Abraham. They teach an emotional guidance scale to raise your vibration.

Recognizing where you are at and consciously stretching yourself up to a slightly better feeling vibration, is the blueprint to living a happier, more fulfilled life.

It got me thinking – what IS this “higher vibration” state in the first place? What is this made of?

If you are intentional about exploring and defining how you choose to live your life and playing with different ways to manifest, know that experiencing each of these qualities is not only possible, but can be incorporated into every aspect of your life. I review each of these in chapter one of my book, Trust Your Next Step: Creating the Confidence to Cut Fresh Tracks.

Let’s take a look at the qualities of a high vibrating state:

Love. Love is the energy from which all things, all of life, flows. Love is our life force and is an intense and powerful radiation that can’t be seen but can be felt. It is the core, the essence, of our light.

Power. The author Mastin Kip says that power is “having enough energy to be able to direct your will, your choices and your actions to ring your greatest vision to life.” This is an internal type of power that comes directly Source.

Light (wisdom). The highest vibration of Source is love and it is infinite intelligence. Omniscient and omnipresent. It is the natural blending of these two qualities that makes wisdom. Love and intelligence combined.

Beauty. The externalization of harmony. Beauty is the very structure, the foundation, of all creation. Including you and everything you create. Beauty comes from the actual construction of the thing itself and cannot be added on as an afterthought. Beauty happens in and during creation, not after.

Joy. A soul-level experience that comes from accepting all of our emotions, both positive and negative, and being at peace with them. Joy is what we are when all of our fears, worries, concerns and doubts are gone.

Life. More than the period between when you are born and when you die, life is the nature of all things. Our life force is always innately seeking ways to express in bigger, greater ways.

Abundance. The feeling of knowing that you have more than enough of whatever you want or need. The more you recognize your spiritual nature, the more abundantly you will receive and recognize the various aspects in your life. You do this by knowing that the energy of the Universe, of Source, is infinite and as such, so are you.

Peace. When your inner state “of being “is in control, even when the outer world is not. Not disturbed by what is happening around you and maintaining a sense of calm, quiet, serenity and tranquility. You are then in harmony with life.

Freedom. Living free of fear, tension, anxiety or sorrow. Self-knowledge – freedom from our ego. Not living from a place of believing our thoughts.

Read each of these qualities and see what reactions they bring up in you. Does one bring tears of emotion or a sense of longing? Do you feel lacking in one or more of these qualities? There are exercises in the Trust Your Next Step Workbook that will allow you to take this teaching deeper if you desire.

We often talk about raising our vibration flippantly. Take some time to dig into what it means for you and how to use this information consciously.

Having a difficult time seeing the truth for yourself? A Spiritual Coaching Session with Kelly will do just that for you. Schedule one here now.

Living Outside the Lines

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Living Outside the Lines

In our recent Fresh Tracks interview, author Mina Samuels made a comment about coloring outside the lines and it got me thinking. How do we do that? I can visualize coloring outside the lines – something I taught my children NOT to do when they were young. But what does coloring inside the lines mean in my life?

Are there any areas of my life that I AM staying inside the lines? Do I even know where the lines exist?

Coloring outside the lines implies making a choice to live your life your way. Not taking action because you feel obligated to do what is expected of you.

Can you define the lines in your life, where they are seemingly holding you back, and then, with intention, can you cross them?

When you are coloring inside the lines, the truth of the matter is you are usually coloring in someone else’s picture. Rather than even focusing on coloring outside the lines, perhaps start by drawing your own picture. Use whatever colors you want! You CAN have purple grass and green stars if you choose.

The lines are what our mind draws to keep us safe.

Coloring outside the lines is where the creativity happens. It’s the awakening where we realize we can create; we can do something beyond what we are told we can do. It is that creative space where we can express ourselves freely.

Stretching ourselves outside the lines provides a tension, an expansion. This tension is where the growth and forward movement takes place. It is the place where Universal Law kicks in and supports you.

In that tension are the energies of support, the expectation of success, and the bountiful vibration of abundance! It’s all encompassing in this one visual, this lesson we so lovingly teach our children, and strive for as adults…to color within the lines. Let’s retrain ourselves to do the opposite and cut our own Fresh Tracks!

Having a difficult time seeing the truth for yourself? A Spiritual Coaching Session with Kelly will do just that for you. Schedule one here now.

Living from Grace

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What does it mean to live from grace? Grace is one of those words many of us hear frequently but don’t think about much. It can easily become an esoteric concept that doesn’t apply to everyday life.

Or is it?

We often talk about living “in the flow”. Of allowing things to happen rather than forcing outcomes or results. Of living life with ease and creating next steps from a natural place of effortlessness.

It’s often easier said than done!

I had an unexpected experience of grace recently and was able to marvel at the synchronicity of what happened. My needs were met without effort or forcing anything. I was going to teach a class on grace and thought to myself “what in the world am I going to talk about for three hours on this topic?”. How do I teach grace?

The next day a book showed up at my door on the topic of grace. Hence, our Fresh Tracks podcast this week is the author of this book! This is an example of me bringing something I wanted into my life without worry, effort or stress. This was me living and creating from grace. Grace is a way of being, it’s not something we make or that has a step-by-step formula for achieving.

What it means to “be grace”

First of all, recognize that “grace is”. It is our job to recognize it. It is not something we create or manifest, it is a way of being.

When we live in grace things unfold seamlessly and we don’t need to do anything to make it happen. Living in grace is living in the flow. Living in alignment with the Universe. It’s the book showing up at my doorstep when I ask how I am going to teach a topic.

The Universe itself is orderly and balanced. When we are being graceful we are in alignment with this order and balance. We are in harmony with the natural order of the Universe.

Grace is not something we get. We grow into grace as much as we can embody it. It is an ever-evolving, always changing way of being.

Grace is not something granted by divine inspiration, it is something inside us that we bring out. Without force. Without holding on tightly. Without strings attached.

Grace is.

Having a difficult time seeing the truth for yourself? A Spiritual Coaching Session with Kelly will do just that for you. Schedule one here now.

Three Steps to Clean-up the Relationships in Your Life

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We care about how we feel and act. And most of us spend time learning to consciously make decisions, gain control of our emotions, and live a fuller, more present life. We focus on raising our “vibration”. On how we are being as much as what we are doing.

How we do this varies by individual. We may read motivating books, attend seminars or talks that inspire and uplift us, exercise, take classes, be in nature…. In general, we strive to better ourselves consistently. If not in our actions in our words and intentions.

Raising your vibration and enjoying the results of faster and easier manifesting, experiencing more joy, peace, and better health takes time, focus and dedication.

And one person can ruin all that hard work in a heartbeat!
Because of this, it only makes sense that we be extremely vigilant about who we allow in our life.

Because all it takes is one snide remark or mean comment from someone to yank your high spirits into the gutter. Particularly if someone close to you does the jab.

This week’s Fresh Tracks podcast guest, Jason Lauritsen, talks to us about the power in creating intentional relationships. The concept of choosing your relationships applies to ALL areas of our lives.

Want to be more loving? Ensure the people you spend the most time with also honor that quality. In my book, Trust Your Next Step: Creating the Confidence to Cut Fresh Tracks, there is an entire chapter dedicated to consciously choosing healthy and supportive relationships in all areas of your life. Including your family, friends, and work acquaintances.

There are three aspects of all your relationships you can examine right now that will lead to an immediate and complete shift in your life:

In what area of your life are you struggling the most? Who do you have in your circle of influence, your immediate space, that does that well? If you don’t have anyone – start looking.
Who in your life is an energy suck? They drain your energy rather than give (you know exactly who this is!). How much time do you permit them and why are they still in your life?
Honestly examine your close friends. Have you had the same group of friends forever? Since high school or college? Do they know YOU as you were, not as you are? Conversely, who is your newest friend that has the (lifestyle, business, health, relationships) that you desire? Is it time to intentionally find a community that stretches you to your new self?

Who you surround yourself with effects how you are at an incredibly fundamental level. It matters. Choose consciously, not by default.

Having a difficult time seeing the truth for yourself? A Spiritual Coaching Session with Kelly will do just that for you. Schedule one here now.

What Really Happens When You Betray Yourself?

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The biggest hurt I’ve experienced in my life was a betrayal by someone close to me. Like all betrayals, it caught me off guard and the truth is I didn’t recognize that it was a betrayal when it happened. It wasn’t an obvious betrayal such as someone cheating on me or someone close unexpectedly stealing money. But it was a betrayal none the less.

It took time to heal from that betrayal. To learn what it meant to me and why it happened in the first place. Our Fresh Tracks podcast guest, Debi Silber, speaks to us about healing from betrayal. She shares the five stages of healing from every betrayal as well as why it’s important to make meaning from the event in order to move forward.

Knowing how painful betrayal is and how it shatters our trust in such a powerful way, I thought it would be useful to investigate what it means to betray yourself.

Let’s take a look at some of the ways we betray our self:

Making decisions because we fear the disapproval of others.
Hiding who we are and trying to be who we think we should be to fit in.
Thinking that people won’t love us if they know who we really are.
Not voicing our opinion because we don’t want to rock the boat.
Living our life in a way others want us to instead of how we choose to.
Staying in a job we hate just to pay the bills, when we know there is something better for us.
Not being our self because of someone else’s opinion.
Being untrue or dishonest with our self.

What quickly happens is you don’t trust yourself to keep your word or that you will follow through with things. Which leads to disliking yourself and not living an authentic life. You struggle to create with intention and purpose.

Think you may have fallen into the self-betrayal trap? Here are a few steps you can take to stop this sabotaging pattern…

Acknowledge the different ways you betray yourself.
Take responsibility for your choices.
Commit to honoring and loving yourself.

Trusting ourselves is one of the most important ways we create and manifest our lives with intention. Self-love is the opposite of self-betrayal. Accepting who we are and unconditionally loving where we’ve been is the path to embodying that we are whole and complete human beings, allowing us to add meaning and purpose in the world.

Having a difficult time seeing the truth for yourself? A Spiritual Coaching Session with Kelly will do just that for you. Schedule one here now.

Is Self-Expression a Spiritual Endeavor?

Have you ever thought about how fully and freely you express yourself? Do you express yourself more freely in some situations than others? How does self-expression play a role in creating your Fresh Tracks?

Self-expression is a display of your personality. It’s having an awareness of you and your YOUness from within and expressing that in your life. Expressing yourself is how you share yourself with the world.

Authentic self-expression is how people get to know the real you, and it allows you to develop closer relationships with people, be accepted for who you truly are, and ultimately live a life of freedom because you’re clearly being you.

When you are expressing yourself, people see your true personality, your individuality. People can feel your true character and spirit, which is as unique and individual as you are.

We often hear people discussing the importance of authenticity. It’s important to be authentic and just as valuable to express that! Our Fresh Tracks podcast guest this week, Lola Wright, talks about authenticity, self-expression and the important role being you plays in society as a whole.

Self-expression is about more than authenticity. It’s being authentic and not hiding it. Self-expression requires self-esteem and confidence to show and express yourself, no matter who’s around or where you are.

As teenagers grow they often try on different hats on the road to discovering who they are. There is a certain point in early middle school where each of my kids discovered their taste in music. You could see them trying on different genres to see which they preferred, and what response they got from others to each genre. We frequently see people expressing themselves boldly with tattoos and piercings, words, clothing, hairstyle, music.

Be aware there is a fine line between expressing yourself and the “look at me” syndrome, which is based in external validation rather coming from an internal, soulful power.

It can be said that we are always expressing ourselves, even if it’s something we may not want to be expressing, such as lack of power or hiding. The more connected we are with ourselves the more authentic our expression is. By not expressing yourself you are denying the world your beautiful bright light. The song of your soul.

Sharing yourself fully is a spiritual endeavor, offering the world your generosity, authenticity, and pureness of spirit. The world is craving your authenticity and what’s needed of you is to express who you are. Unashamedly. Proudly. Boldly.

I have spent way too many years of my life not feeling confident or comfortable enough to express myself. Feeling like it was more important to fit in and be like everyone else rather than be myself. I conformed rather than expressed.

Are there places in your life where you don’t feel you are safe to express yourself? Are you holding back or doing what you think is the right thing to do rather than expressing yourself?

Simply ask yourself the questions and be aware. Listen. How DO you choose to self-express?

Having a difficult time seeing the truth for yourself? A Spiritual Coaching Session with Kelly will do just that for you. Schedule one here now.

The Art of Believing in Yourself

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Believing in yourself is one of those things that is completely in your control yet seems to allude many of us our entire lives. Why? Because there is not a step-by-step formula for success. There is not a one-size fits all answer each of us can follow and be guaranteed confidence and self-esteem. And yet, the key to believing in our selves lies within each of us. Accessible in every moment of every day.

Our thoughts about our self are the main force behind our beliefs.

Are you aware of what are you saying to yourself day after day? In each moment? Are you aware of the conversations going on in your head? Are there other people talking to you (in your head) – such as your parents, your boss or partner? Are you repeating the same negative statements to other people over and over again?

Taking control of the conversations with yourself is the first step to believing in yourself.

Believing in yourself is an art because the journey to knowing you will achieve a goal or successfully accomplish a difficult task is different for each of us. And it requires you to be creative. To look at yourself and your beliefs differently.

Untangling the knots

Imagine your thoughts, that incessant internal conversation going on in your mind, as a big ball of string all tangled up. Each string is a statement or conversation thread. Your job is to first recognize a string, pull it out and separate it from all the others. And then determine if it is your string or not. Is this statement true? Is this me talking or someone else? Do I choose this string for me today? This string may have served you when you were young, but no longer does today.

YOUR strings are the truth about yourself. They are loving, kind, supportive statements and beliefs. They are your true Spiritual self, which is never unkind or unloving.

Other people’s strings are knotted up in your ball. And there are strings that you have taken as yours but do not speak and know your truth. Your job is to evaluate each string and make a conscious decision to keep it or not.

In order for you to believe in yourself you need to not only master your thoughts, but ensure your beliefs support you and aren’t tearing you down at every turn.

Fresh Tracker John Allcock shares on the Fresh Tracks podcast that “awareness gives us the power to realize we are choosing to listen to negative thoughts and the choice to choose positive thoughts”. The art of believing in yourself requires some introspection, examination, and trust.

Curating the awareness of your thoughts, your beliefs, your intentions is how you begin to believe in yourself.

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Are You Failing or this Part of the Growth Process?

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The journey to bringing your dreams to fruition can seem long. Filled with ups and downs, twists and turns, any Soul can be filled with anguish and frustration in the anticipation of their desires and the roller coaster ride getting them there!

Doing anything for the first time, let alone creating a big vision, is not usually a direct shot and it’s important you learn to discern when to change direction and when to quit.

Quitting is a choice – it is not an outcome.

Failure is a judgement. An opinion – it is not an outcome.

Changing direction is a guided choice. It is movement.

As you continue to search for different ways to produce different results, different paths will appear. How do you determine if you should follow them? When is it taking you off your path your path and when is it moving you forward?

By its very nature, as we create Fresh Tracks, we are doing things we have never done before and we are forced to make decisions. Often tough ones.

In our Fresh Tracks podcast interview with Rhett Power, he shares two important things with us about his ability to keep going on to build a multi-million-dollar business despite the appearance of failure.

He knows and respects his own tolerance level.
He does not go into anything with a plan B. He expects to achieve his goal and not achieving it is not a possible outcome.

Are you worried about failing? Here are a few guidelines for you to follow when manifesting something big:

Don’t share your vision with others. Particularly when you are practicing spiritual principles (along with taking the action required!). Other people will most likely doubt your abilities, especially if they are not studying spiritual principles themselves.
Humanity has a collective consciousness that vibrates at a certain level. Do your best to take yourself out of it so you can rise to your own higher level. Study, practice, take action, and insulate yourself with power and faith of understanding and consciously utilizing Universal Principles.
Trust your intuition. Discerning between fear and your internal GPS system can take practice yet is important as they are both different and distinct feedback.
Ask yourself probing questions such as “Am I listening to my intuition or am I forcing something that should be let go?”

Don’t be seduced by the hypnotic trance of fear. There is nothing outside of you that has authority and dominion over your life, says Lola Wright, Spiritual Director at Bodhi Spiritual Center.

Assessing whether you are experiencing fear or your intuition is speaking to you is vital in determining your next step and avoiding failure.

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Understanding Universal Law

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Discovering your beliefs, particularly beliefs that don’t support you in creating Fresh Tracks, is an important part of changing the results in your life.

When looking at beliefs we must start at the beginning. Where do we come from and what are we made of? It’s important to understand we all have access to the same tools and come from the same substance. How we use this substance is what varies and is why some people seem to achieve their goals easily while others struggle.

One of my favorite quotes is by the great teacher Thomas Troward. He said “Principle is not bound by precedent.” To me this means that just because I have always gotten a certain result—such as never making more than $20,000 a month in my business—doesn’t mean I can’t make more than $20,000 a month in my business (precedent). Most of us can easily agree with this.

The subtlety in this statement is: what does Principle mean?

Principle is Universal Law, and to create our lives with intention we all need to know, understand, and master what IS possible. What is Universal Law? What is Principle and where am I following it and where am I not following it?

Universal Laws cross all religions and are spiritual truths by which we all live. They are simply truths.

If you are struggling to create a change in your life, or certain parts of your life are not working, you are struggling because you are not following a Universal Law correctly.

If you don’t even know what they are it’s hard to determine if you are following them correctly!

Why are Universal Laws important to know and understand? Because many of our beliefs (both conscious and unconscious) are not in alignment with Universal Law. In fact, some of our beliefs contradict the laws and that is why understanding these may be the most important thing you learn and study right now.

Be open to the fact that if you are not receiving a result in your life it is because you are not following a Universal Law. Yet you might be doing what YOU KNOW TO BE TRUE. And what you know to be true may be wrong.

Recognize where you have a belief that is not in alignment with a Universal Truth, and then see where this untrue belief is stopping you from creating what you want in life. Following this process is a game changer and can make creating your Fresh Tracks effortless!

About Kelly Robbins

Kelly Robbins is the producer of the Fresh Tracks with Kelly Robbins podcast and the author of Trust Your Next Step: Creating the Confidence to Cut Fresh Tracks.

A proven leader, master communicator and teacher, Kelly’s 17 year track record helping others catapult their lives and careers by creating Fresh Tracks is unprecedented. Today she helps others live their divine purpose, experience life as a fun adventure, and trust their next step always.

Kelly has a masters degree in Communications from the University of Denver and is a licensed practitioner with the Centers for Spiritual Living.